hopefully, it is a she...
no info to go on, so you can't get much of a response.
substrate definitely needs greter aeration properties, i.e. more perlite or similar. Also looks to be bad watering habits based on drying pattern but cannot be certain of that from one still image.
the plant is pale because it is not being fed properly and probably related to the above mention of bad watering habits.
go read guides and article (not user-submited comments) on cocoforcannabis.com. These are the best guides for growing pot with the least amount of bro-science nonsense i have ever found. Forums are a wasteland of misinformation but can glean some good stuff occasionally. be skeptical of user-submitted stuff.